Whether he is married, dating some other woman. We as women/girls may or may not hold the notion that “aaah, I will make him mine..he will fall for me and maybe leave her”
Ever been in a triangle of you (the side chic), the girlfriend and the baby mother??We truly are stubborn women. Its all fun and games at first..he makes you laugh.The adrenaline of sneaking around and having that sexual tension that only you and him understand. The random meet ups at some hotel, some bar, the club. Secret get aways to Zanzibar, Dubai, you name it. And on top of it all, the sex is out of this world.
All this goes south when “we’ yes, normally it’s the girl who falls hard and starts “demanding’. And that is where, my girls, we go wrong. They (Him) know the right buttons to press, the right words to say. You can be the strong side if you know why exactly you’re in this position. Whether it’s for the money, a distraction from your own relationship or just for curiosity reasons. That’s alright…well as long as y’all are careful and don’t get caught 😉
Well some strong sides have managed to take the main chic position or get “wifed” up even. Who knows how it was planned for you to meet your soulmate?
Be the strong side..but don’t lose your way. Now, I am in no way advising you to go ahead and be a side chic but I am talking to the ones who have been or side chics as they are reading this, know when to stay and when to pack up and leave darling!